THE QUIET MIGRATION

Director's Statement

How do you find your home in a world, where your body is out of place?

The Quiet Migration centers around transnational adoption and the difficult formation of kinship in adoptive families. In some cases, the adoptee is sent back as the abilities of the adoptee does not correspond with the demands of the adoptive parents. In other cases, the screening of the adoptive parents by authorities is not sufficient as emphasis is rather put on financial capacity rather than the parents’ capability to become a multicultural family.

Through the years, I’ve talked to countless adoptees and their common ground has undeniably been the challenge of forming a kinship and the difficulty of becoming a united family. Several has even doubted if they belong to their family equal to the rest of the family members.

We have been silent about our lives in our adoptive families; not all of them were prepared for being a multicultural family, but you don’t bite the hands that feed you. We live as a hidden minority in Denmark amongst the majority - within white adoptive families.

It gives us a more privileged status with more rights than other immigrants. We are more protected, but also more vulnerable, because we came alone, migrated as babies or very young children. That’s why transnational adoption is called the quiet migration.

Many of us stood alone without access to our own story and without resemblance to anyone in our surroundings. We were forced to hide the loss of our original family, culture and language. We stood with our Asian bodies out of place, where as a woman you are dictated by a fetishistic desire and as a man you experience a de-sexualization of your own body.

As teenagers we had to navigate beauty ideals that didn’t fit us. No one could have foreseen we also had to carry that burden.
I strive to describe how everything is osmosis – the leaves, the seeds, the colours, the tastes and the scents. The decay, the death and the painful is just below the surface of the bright, blue sky and the yellow corn fields. What I miss most about Korea is how the sun colors the landscape in pastel colors, the pink and yellow in soft shades.

How the food and all the different fermented vegetables served in bowls are never mixed together. You combine the tastes by placing them in a mint leave in your hand, rolling it around a piece of meat before eating it. Carl’s longing for his origin also deals with colors and tastes, warm temperatures and landscape, and I want to dwell on this aspect in The Quiet Migration as a full image of his loss.

My intention with The Quiet Migration is to include us and our existence as a part of history,
to make hidden lives visible and from an insider’s perspective shed light on some of the
unforeseen consequences that this unusual kind of migration causes.