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Director's Statement
WHAT WAS YOUR REIATIONSHIP TO YOUR MOTHER LIKE?
My relationship to her was very distant. I really got to know her only after I had become adult. It was always very interesting to talk to her or just to listen. She was perspicacious, funny and could be extremely sarcastic in her observations. She could take people apart and I enjoyed listening to her then. At some stage I realized — after I could understand the whole extent of her personal misery — that it's wrong to see only what's negative about other people and the world. That point of view has consequences. If you're incapable of love, then at some point you'll be alone and desperately unhappy. I felt this about my mother. The more insecure and helpless she became towards the end of her life, the more you could notice that she wasn't this strong, untouchable personality. She was extremely vulnerable; a princess who, in her heart of hearts, never advanced beyond the age of 17. Part of the tragedy was that she'd left her husband and child so early. She just couldn't help it. And I'm not blaming her for it, either. But if you leave your child when it's three years old, you'll also suffer from trauma. My mother never found a partner again afterwards and was very lonely for the rest of her life. It's an almost heroic death she diel, considering she was a lonely writer, couldn't leave the house, had no money, had lost most of her friends because she'd written badly about them at some point or other and, on top of everything else, lived in a conservative city like Munich ...